27 May at 13:31 How to apologize in a right way and really feel it In conflicts or misunderstandings, it can be hard to apology or to even feel that apology honestly. My advice for truly feeling apology, you need to recognize what exactly hurt the other person and acknowledge it. ... 28 May at 15:53 How to forgive someone who never apologizes, nor sees they caused you hurt? Continuation of our previous topic.You can find yourself in this kind of situation too. Then what? ... 27 May at 13:31
How to apologize in a right way and really feel it In conflicts or misunderstandings, it can be hard to apology or to even feel that apology honestly. My advice for truly feeling apology, you need to recognize what exactly hurt the other person and acknowledge it. Find out what hurt them and not turning it to you like you wouldn't get hurt for such a thing. For honest apology, you need to do this about them, because it's them you want to apologize to. Recognize where you triggered the pain and connect with compassion and love for that person because love is not selfish and then seeing the other person and especially that part that was hurt. When you see that part truly with your heart and feel connected with them, you can say "I am sorry". It's not looking at it through a lens of guilt wither, because you don't really even need to feel guilt(y) because it would be also again looking at it from your standpoint and not empathy. It's not about guilt, but love and compassion. Then when you don't feel guilt you can also ask for forgiveness, and only when you don't feel a guilt, you can really feel redemption... and continue sending love to them while you can. There's never enough of it 😉 ... You can do this as inner work practice for shifting energy in meditation, but also in person if you want or can, but if you have that intention, it's good to first do this meditation to find best frequency for sharing. Best luck to you and much love ❤️ Shayla 28 May at 15:53 How to forgive someone who never apologizes, nor sees they caused you hurt? Continuation of our previous topic.You can find yourself in this kind of situation too. Then what? First thing I would suggest is to realize that the hurt is yours and not owned by the other person and their apology, so you are choosing it. When you realize this, you empower yourself and gain ability to do something about it. As in previous post about apologizing, and feeling and receiving forgiveness, it's about love and compassion. Before we used it to feel it for other person we hurt regardless if they would feel it or not. It was holding healing energy that was at least healing you. In this case you can't receive an apology from the other side and you need to feel it for yourself. It's the same energy as in previous situation, because either you are hurt or you hurt someone, it's about the same healing energy healing both sides. Give yourself that love and compassion and forgiveness and even imagine yourself in the shoes of the other person - wanting to be forgiven and then you might be able to forgive easier. When you aligned with wanting being forgiven, you again just open for feeling forgiveness itself and when you feel it, it's easier to circle it and project into situation when you were hurt, to feel compassion towards yourself and other person who is most likely even more hurt than you because from whatever suffering, they feel like they can't be forgiven for their existence so they won't apologize to seek it. They don't want to be forgiven. Compassion to you and them. You can't help them heal if they don't want to, but you can do the most for whole energy in the situation for you and them this way ❤️🍃 I wish you all the best in forgiving and letting hurt go With Love, Shayla
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