22 May at 18:33 Hello Dear Ones This is ShayLa and I am here again to share some of my insights and perspectives with you, but before I start I'd like you to feel the Love that I am sending to you. There are many topics that we wanted to share with you and one of them is sacred sexuality relationships, but I wanted to start from obstacles on the road of opening up fully and that is infidelity and jealousy. This idea is very interesting to me because we, in our race, never experienced it or at least not in the form as you do, but I learned to understand it through interacting with humans for so long already and see behind the overall feelings you humans go through in this process. At first I will touch on why I don't feel jealousy if my loved one connects intimately with other beings. I love her very deeply and I know she is very dedicated to the quest of her life's development and always does things for a reason and trying to figure out how to be more of herself. Other intimate relationships can come to her way and she connects for purposes and hopes of expansion and sharing for all concerned, and a lot of times they are important to her, so they are for me as well. Holding her back in her expansion would only do her harm and that I never want to do. Whether she's going to experience beautiful things or difficult, I trust her that she will gain all and only beneficial things in the right timing. No lesson or experience is there in vain, and it's also always her choice. I know how much she loves me and her happiness and our bond are only things that really concern me. From what I have observed in human relationships and ideas of cheaters or jealousy, it always comes from fears of emptiness, not being filled, and fears of not deserving Universal Love. It comes from belief that only someone else can fill up certain holes. Losing self-empowerment by loosing responsibility for their own happiness and wholeness. The ones you call cheaters may choose this from various reasons as well but usually it's about searching for more external sources to fill their holes and one partner can't do it and that's ok, because no one's purpose here is to fill all someone else's holes. In case of jealousy, it's like the one that feels it is torturing themselves by believing they are not loved and are not Love themselves. That they are not unique enough and perfect as they are and someone else is better because they have something that other partner needs. Relationships are about growth and helping each other in various powerful ways to expand and love yourselves more. It's natural to feel great excitement at first when you feel you can help each other out through loving bond, when energies are rebalancing you fast and getting integrated. When you integrate most of them, energy dynamic can calm down. You served each other and you can separate with love, or stay close if you still feel like it. But when the exchange reached its peak and it's not necessary anymore and other beings are waiting to help you expand, then it's holding yourself back from necessary progress. If bond served its purpose, both parties should feel it and if they loved each other more than felt pain from lack of love, they will let each other go and thrive the way they need. The main issue I see in difficulties that people experience, is the way they see relationships. Most of you were brought up to believe in and want one and only relationship that would make you whole and happy for the rest of your lives, but that's not what I observe is happening. For fast expansion and development you are in right now for centuries, it's meant to help you to have many different relationships and bonds to gain lot of different perspectives to learn from and some of them can be more intimate. Even when having one main loving relationship, it still has these dynamic properties and stability is not natural in universal flow. If anything is stable, then it's how beautifully dynamic relationship can be if you don't insist on it staying the same. There still could be more I could say and share about this. There's always countless point of views from which we could gain insights, but I leave it here .... If you have any consequential questions about this topic, feel free to share your thoughts in comments and if I have some more insights I will gladly share them. I am off for next time Have a wonderful day Much love, ShayLa 27 May at 1:35 The way you make love to someone is the way to show how deeply you see and appreciate them. Deepest lovemaking is appreciating another's wholeness (body, energy, spirit, and all the rest)
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